Do you ever get that hesitation when you want to go for something, like a goal, and you say to yourself “I can’t do this” “Why did I ever think I could do it?” What was I thinking? “I’m not good enough” Somewhere there is a limiting belief that is stopping you. Yup, something or someone in your past, made you believe that you couldn’t do something, that you weren’t good enough. You lost your courage and confidence to push forward.
My Limiting Belief
Well I get it! My limiting belief was “who wants to listen to me, I am a nobody” “What makes me think I can help anyone.” It didn’t help that I remember my father in a video, with his finger up, trying to get people’s attention in a meeting. I would see this image vividly all the time, and when people would tell me, “you are just like your dad”, all I could see, was my dad trying to get someones attention.
That one image haunted me forever, as “I believed that if the apple didn’t fall far from the tree, and if I was just like my dad, how could I get anyone’s attention to help them?”
Don’t Beat Yourself Up
Well don’t beat yourself up, as you read this, as you are probably thinking “what is holding ME back.” what are MY limiting beliefs ?” Well, guess what, those are thoughts we all have, but, they can be fixed.
This is not race. Start listening to what you are saying to yourself. You might be surprised at the negative thoughts and words that run through your mind. Write those thoughts down. Once you have acknowledged those negative thoughts and limited beliefs, that is when you can fix them. Because you will know what you are working with.
You Can
When you acknowledge negative thoughts, you start to become more aware. When you are more aware, you can replace negative thoughts when they are triggered, with positive thoughts like “I Can”
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Patricia
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Patricia Love, the “RahRah” Coach, is a motivational and accountability coach. She flips women’s inner script from “I can’t” Into “I can” so they can break through those blocks that have sabotaged their pocketbook, and the life they deserve. Words do matter, and what you say to yourself, will deflate or elevate your life. Patricia “flips your inner script” into external abundance and Joy.
She has coached Top Realtors, CEO’s and Entrepreneurs over the last 27 years doubling and tripling their incomes, while adding more balance and fun into their lives.
She takes “Words Matter” seriously with the extension of her coaching through her healing hoodie’s movement…Putting inspiring words on the front and back of her hoodies that will motivate all. 10% of all her income goes towards helping our lost and homeless youth, to get inspired and motivated, despite their circumstances. It’s a gift that keeps on giving.
